Are schools having the opposite effect than we'd hope?

Do you agree with this list of things that parents are generally aiming for their children to be? 

Happy

Fulfilled

Successful

Productive

Ethical & Decent

Independent & Self-Reliant

Caring & Compassionate

Confident

Curious

Creative

Critical Thinkers

Good Communicators

Tolerant & Embracing differences in others

The list comes from the incredible book 'The Schools Our Children Deserve', by Alfie Kohn. 

After a detailed analysis of the conventional school system, he concludes that school may be mostly no impact, or a negative impact on ALL of the above list. 

Lots of topics - leads to a shallow understanding

Learning a "Bunch of facts" - negative impact on critical thinking

Over-reliance on phonics - kills the love of reading and learning

Grades / standardised tests - focus on the 'right answer' over deep understanding

Uniforms - send the message that differences aren't to be celebrated

Limited time for play and carts - squashes creativity

What other ways can you see that school operates to the detriment of our aspirations for our children?